an advice column(人生相談)


	②　It is mother of a boy who is worry part housewife 43 years old of the interpersonal . relationship of the those who consult about A office the second grade of junior high-school and in the sixth grade of elementary school. It wants to consult with the interpersonal relationship of the office and it thinks though the part clerical work of medical has been done for one year in the same city. A woman in her forties who is working most from of old directly throws feelings at me at the drop of a hat, and it often uses offensive language though in the office, there are eight total people (six part people and two positive staff) including me. It doesn't greet in the morning when it is awful, and it is disregarded until time where it returns. It is not borne to hear it only by the abuse of no colleagues in superior's ear duster and the place at lunch. It was heard that my abuse had been variously spoken when I took a rest by child's classroom visitations recently the other day. Her treatment cannot be endured when a peripheral story is heard, and there seems considerably to be a person who has resigned up to now though it was thought that I who did not become accustomed to work had times of the fall. It is difficult to become accustomed to work, and to search for a new office in the age. And taking no notice hinder the annoyance. Recently, it might hit children in the house. Is it good when doing very not to worry about her, and to keep the Heian era of my own mind?


	Answer A lot of people in the world are convinced, "This is a problem of the interpersonal relationship". And, worry is pushed into the bottom of one's hearts further. The purpose is worry is not canceled but to overdo it. To tell the truth, the mind limit and I of endurance are driven in. You are also so, and a person rough in the world walks on the same road, and the same road is advised. And, it hits the wall. To tell the truth, this is neither a problem of the interpersonal relationship nor a problem of the interpersonal relationship. Therefore, it is not good in the solution. People except you think seeming. However, is there a thing that the mind rises in addition in the current method starting with worry though it will look oppositely? Even if it is thought good atmosphere so, and it searches for a new office with the person who is , this time even if he or she does over again easily, does not it become an appearance that it keeps running after until hanging on when catching for the blue bird?Therefore, a lot of people are very weak to the discord because of such a failure experience. It is because there is no done art. Please let me describe my answer. It doesn't suffer in the interpersonal relationship with the person but your special mind is clouded by the person's speech and behavior, and as for your worry, this thing is unpleasant and painful. It has already endured and it doesn't cut. Then, I said that no problem of the interpersonal relationship ahead. Breathe deeply here, and watch my true character and a French character where it wants to live honorable. Maybe, the answer "It is so" will come back. It must not be ruined, and I must not shrink the complaint of a nature of me who doesn't have the thing made dirty and a French character hearing it today. neverAs the nature where it wants to live honorable, it is in without shrinking clouding at once by the other party's advice up to now. There is not an art of managing in society either. It is the biggest power of person's mind, and the one to shoot the biggest influence power. The person resonates to this power, and can be waved. First of all, your view comes out in the office. It comes seeing the many. And, it might be a thing that the change comes similarly the person in the question in becoming cloudy in the state of the rain cloud that new development will start soon. If it is you, it is possible to do. sato jiko